Back to articles Part 2: How to avoid Internet Intruders

Categories: Parenting

Monique Howatt provides us with the second installment on cyber-bullying and staying safe on the Internet.


  1.      Never give out any personal information (includes SIN#, full name, school attended, email address, home address, telephone number and parent's occupation or mothers maiden name or local  points of interest like a mall or park.

            Teach your child to say the following:

·        “I won’t give you that information.”

·        “I don’t know.”

·        “I forget…just a second, I’ll ask my mom to come in.”


2.      Reject online private chat rooms. When using online instant messaging programmes, ensure they only accept invitations from people they know and be sure to block random strangers.

·        Do you know your child’s MSN name?

·         Does your child have a Facebook account?

·         Does a stranger know the answers to these questions and you don’t?


3.      Tell your child/teen never to arrange to meet anyone. Consider sticking a reminder note on the computer. Tell stories about predators and kids/teens who met them. Together with your kids watch Dateline NBC “To Catch a Predator.”


4.      Speak to your Internet Service Provider about their safety features. You may find you are able to regulate use of the internet and block access to sites. If you do block access to a particular site then discuss your reasons with your child/teen.


5.      Remember that even if you have blocks in place, that your child/teen may still find a way around them. By being open with your child/teen, your child/teen may be open and trustworthy in return.

About the Author: Monique Howat is a youth motivator.
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